Family tragedy

Yesterday I received an e-mail from my father which told me that my grandmother is dead. I accept the fact that she was old and that it is natural that she died. She was over ninety years old and very sick lately, so in my mind it is better for her to be dead and without pain than live another year or two on this earth in agony. Cynical? Not really.
What disturbed me most was the message that followed afterwards. My aunt (my fathers sister) did not tell anybody about it and planned to bury her in secret.

The thing is that my aunt Luise (Luiza in Lithuanian) belongs to the Jehovah witnesses or whatever that is. I have no problem with people who follow any of the religions even though I am not religious my self, but I do have a problem with people who accept only the ones that belong to their own religion.
My aunt has been Jehovah's witness for about 10 years (approximately) and she tried to pull me into it too. She found a husband for herself in her community and her life improved tremendously. Because she was the one that still lived with my grandmother (the family made an agreement that she is the most suitable to look after her mother and therefor later on the property will be all hers) she tried to pull the poor woman into it aswell. My grandmother was a lifelong Catholic and did not want to change her religion and that's where it went wrong.
My aunts husband started abusing the poor woman, she got sick, beaten up etc. My aunt banned her brother's and their families from entering the house, as we are all wicked or something like that.
The last time I saw my grandmother was five years ago, she was ill and did not recognise me. We were never really that close.
Now I am shocked because my aunt buried my grandmother according to Jehovah witnesses traditions. I feel some disgust because she humiliated my grandmother after she died. My father (who is also not religious) attended the funeral as a neighbour informed him (as I mentioned earlier Luise tried to bury her mother in secret), and he is torn. It was his mother there, dead humiliated like it wasn't bad enough that she was humiliated for the last ten years of her life.

My aunts daughter Victoria (Viktorija in Lithuanian)got married a year or so ago, I wanted to send her a wedding present but nobody knows where she lives. My father has told me that he heard that she ran away from her mother and married a man who did not belong to Jehovah witnesses. I hope so for her as she is a nice girl.

In a way I feel guilty. The last time I was in Lithuania I did not visit Agota (an old fashioned form of Agatha in Lithuanian), my grandmother. I remember her but I have not shed a tear for her as I believe she is better off now.

The whole point of this post? Pointless.
I am not intending to stop people from joining Jehovah's witnesses or whatever they are called, all I am asking for please do not humiliate or abuse people who don't follow your religion whoever you are. Because religion should teach you, to be kind and nice to everyone you love, and to be friendly with everyone you know. I don't need a God or a Bible to tell me that. I believe in goodness in everybody even though I am not religious.